fix: stop resolving submitted URLs locally when a proxy will (closes #1079)

validate_url resolved every submitted hostname in the server process before
yt-dlp saw it. Behind a proxy that does its own DNS -- an HTTP proxy, socks5h,
socks4a, or the plain socks5 yt-dlp rewrites to socks5h -- that lookup is both
wrong and harmful: it describes this host's network rather than the proxy's,
and it leaks the hostname of every queued URL to the local resolver, which is
the one thing a SOCKS/Tor setup exists to prevent. It also failed closed when
only the proxy could resolve the name, so a container pointed at the proxy's
DNS port refused every add with 'Could not resolve host'.

The address check is now skipped for hostnames that the carrying proxy will
resolve, and kept everywhere else: for direct fetches, for hosts excluded by
no_proxy, for socks4 (which resolves locally), and for hosts written as IP
literals, which need no lookup and leak nothing. Scheme validation, the
localhost/metadata blocklist and the connect-time socket guard are unchanged.

download_proxies mirrors YoutubeDL.proxies rather than importing it: that
property is only reachable from a constructed instance, and since it decides
whether a security check runs, a quiet upstream change should leave the check
in place rather than silently skip it.

Also makes ALLOW_PRIVATE_ADDRESSES explicit in the download-queue test config
-- unset on a MagicMock it is truthy, which had validate_url bypassing every
check those tests asked it to run.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

README.md

@@ -81,7 +81,7 @@ Certain values can be set via environment variables, using the `-e` parameter on
 * __YTDL_OPTIONS_PRESETS__: Named bundles of yt-dlp options, selectable per download in the UI. See [Configuring yt-dlp options](#%EF%B8%8F-configuring-yt-dlp-options) for format and examples.
 * __YTDL_OPTIONS_PRESETS_FILE__: Path to a JSON file containing presets. Monitored and reloaded automatically on changes. See [Configuring yt-dlp options](#%EF%B8%8F-configuring-yt-dlp-options).
 * __ALLOW_YTDL_OPTIONS_OVERRIDES__: Whether to show a free-text field in the UI for per-download yt-dlp option overrides. Defaults to `false`. See [Configuring yt-dlp options](#%EF%B8%8F-configuring-yt-dlp-options) for details and security considerations.
-* __ALLOW_PRIVATE_ADDRESSES__: Whether to allow downloads from private, loopback, link-local and other non-global addresses. Defaults to `false`, which protects against SSRF by refusing URLs that resolve to internal hosts. Set to `true` only in trusted environments — for example when routing traffic through a proxy/VPN client in Fake-IP mode (sing-box, Clash, Mihomo), which resolves hosts to the `198.18.0.0/15` range. Enabling this disables the SSRF protection entirely, so only use it when you control the network. You do **not** need this to use a proxy on an internal address: a proxy configured through the `proxy` option in `YTDL_OPTIONS` (or the `*_proxy` environment variables) is always reachable at its own host and port, wherever it lives.
+* __ALLOW_PRIVATE_ADDRESSES__: Whether to allow downloads from private, loopback, link-local and other non-global addresses. Defaults to `false`, which protects against SSRF by refusing URLs that resolve to internal hosts. Set to `true` only in trusted environments — for example when routing traffic through a proxy/VPN client in Fake-IP mode (sing-box, Clash, Mihomo), which resolves hosts to the `198.18.0.0/15` range. Enabling this disables the SSRF protection entirely, so only use it when you control the network. You do **not** need this to use a proxy on an internal address: a proxy configured through the `proxy` option in `YTDL_OPTIONS` (or the `*_proxy` environment variables) is always reachable at its own host and port, wherever it lives. Nor do you need it for a proxy that resolves hostnames itself (an HTTP proxy, `socks5`, `socks5h` or `socks4a`): MeTube leaves those lookups to the proxy rather than resolving submitted URLs locally, so none leak and proxy-only hosts still work.
 * __YTDL_NIGHTLY_UPDATE_TIME__: If set, will cause MeTube to use [nightly yt-dlp builds](https://github.com/yt-dlp/yt-dlp-nightly-builds) instead of the stable releases. Set to the time (`HH:MM`, 24-hour) when you want the daily upgrades and MeTube restart to happen. Defaults to empty (disabled).
 
 A filename that would exceed the limit the filesystem accepts is shortened to fit, keeping its extension, with room left for the suffixes yt-dlp adds while downloading. Sites that put a long description in the title would otherwise fail the download outright with `File name too long`. Use `trim_file_name` in `YTDL_OPTIONS` if you want names shorter than the filesystem's own limit, or `restrictfilenames` to strip non-ASCII characters.